HOW TO SUPPORT YOUR WIFE_FEMI OLAITAN

 My Relationship Journal 07.

When you consider the myriad responsibilities  women take on in a home, from home keeping to childrearing to running a business or having a career, it is easy to forget that they are tender.

While women could be resilient, they are not machines. Men are expected to be the support and backbone for women. Ignoring the soft and tender side of a woman will affect your relationship with her emotionally and Otherwise.

HOW CAN YOU SHOW CARE TO YOUR WIFE?

1. PROVIDE DOMESTIC SUPPORT 

House chores should not solely be the responsibility of the woman. It can become overwhelming especially when there is no help. For many women, acts of service evidenced by helping with house chores is a love language.

2. GIVE HER TIME & ATTENTION

Sometimes all a woman needs is the time and attention of her man. Having a time out with her goes a long way to making her feel special and valued.

3. AFFIRM HER WITH YOUR WORDS

 Women are designed to respond to words. Wooing your wife should not end after marriage. It is your responsibility to constantly affirm and praise her. You can help your wife get her groove back, build up her self-esteem and confidence by using kind and affectionate words and watch your wife glow and blossom before your eyes.

4. BE TENDER

Women are like flowers, when you water and tend to them, they grow beautiful. Do not be aggressive or use unkind words on your wife.

5. BE TRUSTWORTHY

Trust gives women a sense of security. A wife becomes unsure of her position in her husband's life when she loses trust in him. Be reliable and also reciprocate your wife's trust.

6. BE INTIMATE

Be open and intimate with your wife. Ensure you communicate freely and openly with her and have honest conversations. Talking, flirting and sharing gives room for a deeper intimacy with your wife.

7. MAXIMIZE THE INFORMAL MOMENTS.

The little things count and matter. You don’t have to create complicated moves to make your wife feel special. Make a big deal out of the simple moments you share together. Random activities like an evening stroll, midnight snack together, doing the laundry together or watching your favorite TV show should not be taken for granted.

My goal is to help you achieve marital success & sexual fulfilment in marriage.

Blessings Always!

FEMI OLAITAN

Lead Pastor

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